Marrying Someone wedding 10 Characteristics Your Suitor Must Have.?

So for your relationship to be wonderful and culminate with an unforgettable wedding party, Zankyou has listed 10 characteristics that your suitor must have, so that you have a good and happy love relationship on a daily basis!

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For many of us, marriage is the realization of a dream , a great renewal, almost the start of a new life together! Our dearest wish is that the person who shares our life is perfect and responsible for our happiness and well-being.

Most of the time, we put in the hands of our partner responsibilities that do not belong to them – worse – we subject them to pressure that should not exist for them. Therefore, when a couple makes the decision to move in together and finally share the same roof, the two lovers do not have the slightest idea of ​​what such a step represents and what it entails. In short, they have no idea what it is to share a common life.

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In a recent study by Professor James A. Coan,  director of the Virginia Neuroscience Laboratory, marriage would indeed be better than cohabitation since “ not getting married means maintaining a certain emotional distance, ” according to this same scientist. Yet after reflection, being in a couple, being married or even living together tends to engage and provide the same things, namely sharing, patience, generosity, altruism, and above all a lot of love and desire. to learn to love!

Therefore, before you decide to live or marry someone, the most important thing is to choose the right person by your side , forgetting those models of Prince Charming that the movies show us. Marriage or cohabitation YES, but do you have to find the right person first!

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What does the ideal partner represent for you? What characteristics should your dream person have and not have? What are the fundamental points on which you must be in perfect osmosis? In short, what kind of man do you want to marry? For Zankyou, the essentials of the perfect man to spend the rest of his life with are:

1. Who communicates: the secret to success!

Someone who listens to you and likes to talk with you makes communication much easier in the relationship. Thanks to this ability, you will solve many problems and other tensions much more easily. Ladies, also pay attention to non-verbal communication, know that men are experts in the matter and that their “I love you” are not necessarily pronounced all the time.

2. Who makes you feel comfortable

The ideal man for you is the one who manages to put you at ease, even in moments of prolonged silence. It will be all the easier for you to define it since moments of silence can either be very uncomfortable or a sign of relaxation: we are not afraid of saying nothing to the other, you understand each other even in the unspoken.

3. Who respects you

A man who respects you, who respects your material and immaterial space, that is to say who does not encroach on your outings with girlfriends or on your corner of the bathtub. A man who asks you “what do you think”, who takes your opinion into account all the time, that’s a good sign!

4. Who stimulates you intellectually

The man with whom it is good to live and make his life is in constant search of intellectual stimuli. He has hobbies, friends he wants you to know. He is interested in a number of things ranging from literature to politics to sports to cinema. A perpetual quest for renewal.

5. Who doesn’t like routine?

Your future husband must have an open mind, who likes to discover, try new things and go on adventures (even in your garden!). The whole thing is that the man in your life can reinvent himself every day and surprise you every day.

6. Who doesn’t judge you!

No to George who judges and criticizes you in an unconstructive way when you don’t conform to his way of thinking. This point is directly linked to small 3)!

Think of your relationship as a team trying to reach the top, the same ideal but with personal means to get there. Forming a couple means looking in the same direction while respecting the vision of your partner. To take the step of marriage, you have to be ready to respect, to give in, to learn, to apologize and to communicate! What is most magical, most stressful, most upsetting in a relationship is that in the end no one has a crystal ball to know what is going to happen. The love between two people is an edifice that is built stone by stone.

The secret recipe for a couple that lasts? Lots of communication, the ability to compromise, to respect your partner and lots and lots of willingness to love and grow alongside this one that you find so special!