All relationships are unique. Each couple has their own identity, which each half constructs. There are those who can’t stand being without each other, those who are more independent, those who go very fast, others who take their time… In short, each couple is different and that’s what which makes it special. However, there are certain things that you absolutely must have or experience with your partner . First of all, because before being two, you are you but also because these things will allow you to have a concrete relationship !
1. Respect
This is THE basis of a couple. If your partner doesn’t respect you, what’s the point? To be belittled by the person, to criticize or to make fun of is not a life. You deserve much better .
2. Trust
Having the assurance that your partner, the one who sleeps next to you every night, is trustworthy, is essential. Every woman deserves to be able to count on her man and vice versa. Trust is built little by little, thanks to the gestures that the partners make to show their other half that there is only her in the world. Trust is a mark of love and allows the relationship to grow, without being stifled by jealousy.
3. L’admiration
Of course, your other half hasn’t climbed Everest, but still, you must admire it a little, right? His little exploits should make you proud, that’s the important thing! One small step for humanity, one big step for your relationship!
4. Can give
Yes, the fun is not only reserved for your moments between cop’s on Saturday evening! With Jules too you must have fun. Why be afraid to share your (rotten) jokes with him? After all, if he’s decided to spend his life with you, he loves you just the way you are. Complicity is an aspect of the romantic relationship that you must absolutely preserve or risk ending up in a boring relationship…
5. Tolerance
A man who tries to change you, there is nothing worse. You are who you are and he must respect that. Rather sneakers than heels? Frozen dish than small dish? It’s like that !
6. Surprises
Sometimes you wish he would surprise you. A bouquet of flowers, a pretty ring or a scratch ticket: it doesn’t matter, as long as he thinks of you .
7. Security
Being with the person with whom we feel that nothing can happen to us is what every woman is looking for. No need for sir to be Terminator, just that he calms you down and protects you.
8. Acceptance of others
You have flaws, that’s what makes your personality. Reckless, capricious or noisy? This is how he must love you and not otherwise!
9. Attention
Getting attention from the person you love is something every woman deserves. This does not mean that you want to control it or that you are assisted! Simply, knowing that he is there, that he is listening to you, is essential . Talking to a wall never made anyone happy…
10. Support
Feeling supported by your man when things get complicated is essential! Whether you have a problem at work, with a friend or even your mother-in-law, knowing that Jules is 100% by your side is reassuring.